It’s very strong to fall in love; it can make you happy, scared, and sad all at the same time. And one of the worst things that can happen when we fall in love with someone is that they might not feel the same way.
The study of why people fall in love is hard to understand and has caused a lot of debate. But psychologists and scientists say there are things you can do to make it more likely for someone to fall in love with you.
So, if you are smitten over someone new and you want to make them love you, keep the following tricks in mind:.
1. Make eye contact when talking to them.
Zick Rubin, a psychologist at Harvard, did a study and found that when two people are in love, they look at each other more often when they talk.
People tend to act like the people they see around them, so make eye contact with your new beauties to make them more likely to fall in love with you.
2. Focus on your similarities.
Studies show that people are more likely to like someone who is like them than someone who is different from them.
As you talk, if you find things you have in common, bring them up. Tell them about the things you’ve both been through.
3. Show that you care about them.
A psychologist and author named M. Gary Neuman says that people like it when others are interested in them instead of talking about themselves again. So be careful not to take over the talk and pay attention.
4. Show them you care and make them feel important.
Neuman has talked to a lot of people, and 48% of couples state that they don’t feel valued. Make the person you’re interested in feel like you value them, and they’ll probably fall in love with you.
5. Give a smile.
Studies have shown that smiling makes you more beautiful and draws people to you. People often connect your happiness with their own, which means that they will feel happy when they think of you.
6. Touch them.
Touching people in a friendly, not creepy, way makes them feel closer to you, which makes them feel more at ease with you.
If you want to flirt with your crush, touch their arm or lightly touch them while you talk. Neuman says they will probably fall for you if you do that.
7. Embrace their passions.
Don’t just say you’re interested in someone’s hobbies and interests; try to be a part of them. When you share someone’s interests with you, they will feel closer to you because they are letting you see a vulnerable side of themselves.
8. Leave a bit of mystery.
Let them discover parts of you that they will find interesting. Don’t give them everything about you all at once. They will feel like they need to figure out your puzzle if you do that, and they will keep trying, which will make them more interested in you.