1. Your partner doesn’t care about how you feel.
You tend to keep your thoughts to yourself because letting them out has no effect on your partner or, worse, makes things worse. For example, if you tell them that something they did hurt you or made you sad, they get mad or say it’s all in your head.
2. Your partner only calls you when they need you for something.
If you feel like they’re nice to you only when they need something from you, your friendship may not be very strong. Not to mention that the help probably isn’t going both ways.
3. Your partner is often unavailable.
If your partner is always busy or tired and uses that as a reason not to spend time with you, you might want to think about whether you want to be with them.
4. You haven’t met any of their friends.
If you’ve been dating this person for a while but haven’t met any of their friends, it means they know the relationship won’t last and don’t see any reason to introduce you to their friends.
5. You can’t recall the last time you had a meaningful conversation.
A key part of a good friendship is being able to talk to each other well. If you never talk about your goals and dreams with your partner and you never talk about anything deep, you probably aren’t in a real relationship.
Absolutely am currently in such kind of relationship but I already have two kids for him and I don’t know where to go with my children things are really going from bad to worst and the mother is in control am tired and I don’t know what to do I just want to leave and never look back I honestly do need help for accomodation and I don’t have a job cause he doesn’t want me to work always very selective