1. He refuses to commit.
If he refuses to commit, even after months of serious relationships, it’s obvious that he has no intention of entering a committed relationship with you.
2. He does not entirely open up to you.
If you aren’t aware of his secrets (family, dreams, objectives, and concerns), it suggests he isn’t letting you in. When you like someone, you feel safe being vulnerable with them.
3. He makes false promises.
Dates that do not always occur and plans that are rarely followed through on are also apparent indicators that he is not taking the relationship seriously.
4. He doesn’t consider you a priority.
Everything else comes first and is the top priority for him. If he only recalls you when he has nothing else to do, then you are nothing more than a source of amusement for him.
5. He isn’t available when you need him.
Is it a bad day at work or an issue at home? If your man isn’t there to assist you during difficult times, he doesn’t take the relationship seriously. Trust us, you deserve someone who desires to be your rock.
6. He does not involve you in his future plans.
He never mentions your role in his future. He has no plans for you. His ambitions are always for himself and sometimes his family, but never for you.
7. He is hesitant to introduce you to his friends or family, or even to mention you to them.
If you’ve known him for a while without meeting any of his close friends and he doesn’t mention you to his family, it implies he’s not seriously considering that choice in the long run.
8. He never apologises after a fight.
You’re always the first to apologise after a quarrel or argument. It doesn’t matter who is to blame; you’re the first to let it go because you know he won’t if you don’t. That’s because he’s not truly interested in you and won’t bother to admit his error.
9. He continues having conversations with others.
If you’ve been dating for a few weeks, or even months, and he’s still looking for other people to connect with, it could be because he’s still “going through the motions” and isn’t ready to commit.
10. He disappears from time to time.
If he disappears, comes and goes, or plays hot and cold, it indicates that he isn’t taking the relationship seriously and may be involved in something else.