People in relationships often get so used to each other that they stop being aware of themselves. They think that their love and friendship are so real that they can be their true selves with each other.
Because of this, these people no longer pay much attention to how they act in front of their partners. There’s a level of comfort, trust, and safety there that takes a long time to build and keep up.
Good for you if you’ve reached a point in your relationship where you feel completely at ease with your man. But you have to keep in mind that just because you don’t pay as much attention to yourself as you used to doesn’t mean your man does.
If he’s still deeply in love with you, he’ll pay as much attention as he can to every part of you. Because he loves you, he pays attention to everything you do. Here are a few things your man sees about you that you might not give much thought to:
1. How much do you eat each day?
You can eat anything. You have a set diet, but you don’t really think about it that much. You eat as much as feels right to you. But your man sees. He likes it when you have a big stomach because then he doesn’t feel bad about eating a lot.
2. How much makeup do you apply each day?
You might think it’s just how you do things, but he still notices. He wants to know, based on the makeup you’re putting on, what kind of day you’re planning on having. He knows that the way you put on your makeup is a direct reflection of how you feel on a given day.
3. What do you drink?
What you drink at the end of a long day will tell him something about how your day went. If you’re drinking a margarita or a cocktail, he’ll know you want to have fun right now. If you say you’re going for a beer, he’ll think you’re just trying to relax.
4. A colour you wear most of the time
You may think that your choice of colours for clothes is something that comes naturally to you. You don’t even have to think about it much when getting dressed in the morning. But he does notice. He thinks that the colours you like show how you feel at the time.
5. The things you like to do most that make you happy
He loves to see how happy you look when you’re doing something you really enjoy.
So, he really pays attention to what makes you happy and does more of those things. It could be yoga, running, writing, singing, drawing, or anything else. If he knows that it makes you happy, he will tell you to do it as much as possible.
6. Your cute smile
Because what man wouldn’t notice his life’s love smiling at him? You have no idea how your smile can make your man feel.
7. How your face looks
You don’t pay much attention to how your face changes in different settings, but he does. He always knows right away when you are mad or upset. He can tell when you are really interested and curious. All you have to do is look at the small details of your face.
8. The most strange things about you
He loves your quirks. These are the things about you that make you who you are. Your weird little habits and personality traits make up a big part of who you are. You don’t think much about them because they’re just part of who you are. But to him, they are part of what makes him love you.
9. Your favourite music
He really wants to know what’s going on in your life. He wants to be a part of what you do. You just turn on your Spotify and blast your best songs without giving it much thought. But for him, it’s another way to see what you’re doing. It gives him a chance to talk to you again and find out more about you.