It’s great to have intimacy, laugh, and have fun with your partner, but respect is the most important thing in a relationship. It’s important to respect each other because if one or both partners treat the other badly all the time, everything else will fall apart.
You should know what rudeness is because you need to deal with it directly if you want the relationship to survive. If the disrespectful person is ready to work on themselves, the relationship might still be able to last.
You should probably end the relationship if your rude partner won’t see what they did wrong, unless you want to spend the rest of it being angry at them. These 11 things show that your partner doesn’t respect you.
1. They don’t care about your time.
They always want you to do things for them, but when it’s your turn, they never do anything. They quickly tell you to do what they want, but they quickly stop you when you want to do something that is important to you. This means your partner doesn’t respect you or value your time.
2. They won’t say sorry.
The person who hurts you will never admit it when they do something wrong. Even though everyone makes mistakes, it is very rude to not own up to your mistakes and say sorry.
3. They never consider your feelings.
If your partner doesn’t care about how you feel, they don’t respect you. If you tell your partner a million times that they are doing something you don’t like and they still do it, that means they don’t care about how you feel.
4. They tell you lies.
Lying is a very rude thing to do. There are times when everyone tells a little white lie. But if your partner lies to you all the time, they don’t respect you.
5 They put down others.
It’s very annoying to have a partner who talks down to you. This is a bad sign if your partner is always putting you down, making fun of you, and treating you like you’re not important.
6. They don’t care about what is important to them.
Your partner doesn’t have to share all of your interests and hobbies, but they should care about you and be there for you. It can be very lonely when your partner doesn’t care about the things that are important to you. This is a very rude thing to do.
7. They are rude to the people you love.
You care about the people you love. Even if you don’t agree with them, your partner should care about them too. If your partner keeps treating your family and friends badly, you should leave them.
8. They flirt with other people in front of you.
Every once in a while, everyone flirts with other people, but it’s a big red flag when your partner flirts with other people. When you pick someone to be in a relationship with, they pick you. It’s just plain rude to entertain other people.
9. They step on your private space.
Limits that we set for other people are called boundaries. If you set limits and your partner keeps breaking them, it means they don’t care about how you feel.
10. They make fun of you.
There is no way to make sure that your partner will always agree with you. But calling someone names over an argument is a big red flag.
11. They stonewall you.
Stonewalling is an emotional form of abuse that happens when you want to talk to your partner about something but they don’t want to hear it. Because they don’t care about what you think or feel, they shut down.